|
Hi Pete! I just came across your blog as I've been debating over mattresses for several weeks! You seem to know your stuff, so here's my question: I just purchased a Queen Tempurpedic and think I went a little too firm, since my last bed was much too soft. I've been in several different kinds of accidents and have pain in my neck, upper and lower back. I need a firm mattress but I like a soft plush feel on top. This Tempurpedic feels like a brick! The only way I'm sleeping now is because I bought a thick feather/down topper on it to give me some relief-but the feathers poke me even though it says it's 100% down. So, I’m sending everything back and starting over. What beds would you most recommend? Any others I may not have checked out yet? I sleep mostly on my side and some on my back. I have had trouble with my arms falling asleep, and certainly usually wake up with stiffness in my neck, shoulders and low back with mattresses in the past. My new thought - Maybe get the PlushBeds Luxury Bliss, (which would save me money), and adding a foam topper for the plush feel? Also, what kind of topper would work best for me? This time I have to be sure about my next choice! :) Thank you VERY much for your advice! Amy Hi Amy, Returning everything you bought will prevent a disaster in a few months. No all foam mattress will provide the support you need for a back that badly damaged… least of all, memory foam. While firm now, it will lose that firmness and support within a matter of months, allowing the heavier parts of your body to sink, which will cause your back pain to return with a vengeance. Your back requires the pushback support of an individually pocketed coil, innerspring mattress, which will maintain the natural alignment of your body and spine, which WILL relieve your back pain long term. The PlushBeds Luxury Bliss in Medium Firm IS the right mattress. Shown here: PlushBeds Luxury Bliss Mattress https://www.plushbeds.com/products/12-luxury-bliss-natural-latex-mattress-with-encased-coils?variant=31705061490786&sscid=71k8_pjs8o&utm_source=share-a-sale&utm_campaign=4342051  PlushBeds Luxury Bliss Mattress This mattress is currently on sale and comes with: A 100 Night Money Back Comfort Guarantee 12 Months 0% Interest Financing for qualified buyers PayPal is Accepted Delivery that’s Fast & Free Add to that, a “Latex for Less” 3” Soft Latex Topper for the comfort you need that WON’T allow your torso to sink, which will relieve the numbness in your extremities that you felt with your too soft mattress. Be sure to order the organic cotton cover to go with it. A latex topper lasts longer than anything else… lasting many years. Shown here: Latex for Less Pure, Organic Latex Mattress Toppers https://www.latexforless.com/products/latex-topper?variant=134346899481&sscid=71k8_rmsu0&utm_source=share-a-sale&utm_campaign=4342051  Latex for Less Pure, Organic Latex Mattress Toppers As an aside, being poked with a Down topper is the nature of the beast. To avoid that, go with an alternative down, which won’t poke you and will keep its shape a lot better and longer than real down.
Here’s a link to one from PlushBeds: PlushBeds Alternative Down Mattress Topper https://www.plushbeds.com/products/alternative-down-bed-topper?sscid=71k8_rmssu&utm_source=share-a-sale&utm_campaign=4342051&variant=32001051787362 Delivery is Always Free Thanks, Pete- TME ******************************** Recommended related items that are commonly needed: Headboards & Platform Beds https://www.themattressexpert.com/furniture.html#/ Foundations https://www.themattressexpert.com/foundations.html#/ Bed Frames https://www.themattressexpert.com/bed_frames.html#/ Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector https://www.themattressexpert.com/sleep_and_beyond_protectors_and_encasements. ********************************* Visit our website for other related products TME Website: https://themattressexpert.com/ Thanks, Pete - TME Delivery is Always Free Online Ordering is Easy & Secure. Visa, M/C, Discover, Amex Follow us on Facebook & Instagram Questions? Ask TME: Email: [email protected] Voicemail: 856-874-6894
0 Comments
Hi Pete,
I need a mattress that can hold a 200 lb. woman with fibromyalgia. But, it also needs to be long lasting to replace a 16 year old pillow top double sided Stearns & Foster mattress. I can’t remember what collection the mattress was at the time, but it was the most expensive available at that time costing around $4,000, if that helps you determine what Stearns & Foster model I’m replacing. Thank You, Heather Good Morning Heather, The first thing that you must understand is that a lot has changed since you bought your S&F mattress. Tempur-Pedic now owns S&F. What used to be the Cadillac of the Industry is now nothing more than expensive junk…all due to the memory foam upholstery, which was not used in your mattress. In order to make a successful purchase, it’s imperative that you avoid any mattress upholstered with memory foam. Memory foam is specifically designed to cause a mattress to need frequent replacing. It wears quickly, sleeps hot, and off gasses the toxic chemicals from which memory foam is made…a health hazard to every living being in your home. Also, there is no mattress made today that will be strong enough and be soft enough to support and comfort a heavy person suffering with fibromyalgia for very long. Your purchase will need to include a mattress for support and a topper or toppers sufficient to ease your fibro pain. This type of sleep system combination will prevent you from having to replace your mattress frequently….only replacing the topper(s) from time to time. The best mattress to get for you is the Natura Greenspring Ultra Plush, which is not as soft as it sounds, due to the high quality of the components. My wife and I have this mattress and latex topper at home. It’s 11 years old and still in like new condition, with each of us weighing more than 200 lbs. Shown here: https://www.themattressexpert.com/store/p142/Natura_Greenspring_Liberta_Ultra_Plush.html#/ Latex is and has been, by far, the most resilient upholstery material on the planet for the past 100 years…and the first topper to add for both comfort and durability. The Suite Sleep, pure Vita Talalay Latex Topper is the one to get. It’s the softest highest quality latex topper available. Shown here: Suite Sleep 3” Soft Pure Vita Talalay Latex Mattress Topper https://cc-mattress-llc.square.site/product/pure-vita-talalay-latex-topper/32 Normally, this combination is enough for most fibro patients. If your condition is advanced and you would like it to feel even softer, I recommend adding the PlushBeds Alternative Down Topper, which has a more cloud-like feel. It’s not as long lasting as latex, which will last for several years. It’s likely to need a more yearly replacement. But it’s very pillowy. Shown here: PlushBeds Alternative Down Mattress Topper https://www.plushbeds.com/products/alternative-down-bed-topper?sscid=71k8_rmssu&utm_source=share-a-sale&utm_campaign=4342051&variant=32001051787362 I recommend waiting until the mattress and latex topper arrive before deciding if it’s necessary. We had been a Sealy/S&F dealer for many years prior to Tempur-Pedic buying them in 2013. The Natura Greenspring mattresses are what we found at the industry trade shows to replace the S&F brand, for their ultra high quality. This mattress comes with White Glove Delivery Delivery is Always Free. ******************************** Recommended related items that are commonly needed: Headboards & Platform Beds https://www.themattressexpert.com/furniture.html#/ Foundations https://www.themattressexpert.com/foundations.html#/ Bed Frames https://www.themattressexpert.com/bed_frames.html#/ Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector https://www.themattressexpert.com/sleep_and_beyond_protectors_and_encasements. ********************************* Visit our website for other related products TME Website: https://themattressexpert.com/ Thanks, Pete - TME Delivery is Always Free Online Ordering is Easy & Secure. Visa, M/C, Discover, Amex Follow us on Facebook & Instagram Questions? Ask TME: Email: [email protected] Voicemail: 856-874-6894 Hi Pete,
I have a number of problems and I hope you can help me. I need a new mattress. The one I have is causing my back to hurt badly. I also have osteoarthritis and severe fibromyalgia pain. Making all this hopeless is that I can’t afford to buy a new good quality mattress. I’m hoping that with your vast knowledge, that you might be able to offer a low cost solution. Someday, I’ll be able to buy a new mattress. So please, send your advice for what to buy when I can afford it. Thanks, Chrissy Hi Chrissy, First, let’s go over your low cost option. Walmart has a polyurethane foam mattress topper that’s very inexpensive. If I remember correctly, it’s only 3/4” thick. Since they are so cheap, you’ll want 2 of them. It sounds like your mattress is pretty well shot. If not replacing it, flip it over before adding the topper(s) It’s important that the support you’re getting is firm. The flip side will give you better support. The following are the products I would recommend if you were buying new, that will best address all of your physical conditions. These are very high quality, but the least expensive of them. The Mattress:Eco-Terra Hybrid Latex Mattress https://ecoterrabeds.com/products/hybrid-latex-mattress?sscid=71k8_m5d12&utm_campaign=4342051&utm_source=share-a-sale Topper #1 Latex for Less Pure, Organic Latex Mattress Toppers https://www.latexforless.com/products/latex-topper?variant=134346899481&sscid=71k8_rmsu0&utm_source=share-a-sale&utm_campaign=4342051 Topper #2 PlushBeds Alternative Down Mattress Topper https://www.plushbeds.com/products/alternative-down-bed-topper?sscid=71k8_rmssu&utm_source=share-a-sale&utm_campaign=4342051&variant=32001051787362 All 3 will provide you with a long term solution for proper spinal support, cushioning for your arthritis and a top layer that feels cloud like to address your fibromyalgia. These linked products are available with 0% interest free financing for 12 months, for qualified buyers. The mattress comes with a 90 night money back comfort guarantee. Delivery is free. Please, feel free to respond to this email with any questions. Thanks, Pete ******************************** Recommended related items that are commonly needed: Headboards & Platform Beds https://www.themattressexpert.com/furniture.html#/ Foundations https://www.themattressexpert.com/foundations.html#/ Bed Frames https://www.themattressexpert.com/bed_frames.html#/ Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector https://www.themattressexpert.com/sleep_and_beyond_protectors_and_encasements. ********************************* Visit our website for other related products TME Website: https://themattressexpert.com/ Thanks, Pete - TME Delivery is Always Free Online Ordering is Easy & Secure. Visa, M/C, Discover, Amex Follow us on Facebook & Instagram Questions? Ask TME: Email: [email protected] Voicemail: 856-874-6894 PlushBeds 4th of July Sale. Save Up to 50% Off Sitewide Click on this link: PlushBeds…Double Certified Organic Mattresses and Toppers https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1233558&u=4342051&m=62252&urllink=&afftrack= If you missed PlushBeds Memorial Day Sale, You're in luck! PlushBeds’ Early “4th of July” Sale has just started — And, it’s their biggest summer savings event yet! Take $1500 off all mattresses, 25% off toppers, pillows & bedding, and get $799 in premium organic bedding for just $249 with any qualifying mattress purchase. Whether you're upgrading your guest room or your child’s bedroom mattress, or finally investing in a great, cooler night’s sleep for yourself, there’s no better time than now!!! Cooler Support, Cooler Sleep Up to 50% Off Best Selling Sleep Staples  The Natural Wool Mattress Topper The Natural Wool Mattress Topper Handcrafted with cruelty-free, natural virgin wool, this topper adds a plush, breathable layer of comfort. Wool naturally regulates temperature and wicks away sweat—keeping you cool and cozy, no matter the season.  The Botanical Bliss Mattress The Botanical Bliss Mattress Made with cooling organic latex, breathable organic cotton, and moisture-wicking wool, this award-winning mattress is perfect for summer and all-year comfort.  The SoftCell Chill Latex Pillow The SoftCell Chill Latex Pillow This adjustable pillow features FRÍO® rapid-chill fibers proven to cool 5x faster than traditional polyester. With responsive support and an airflow-boosting design, it’s your go-to for sweat-free, restful sleep. Delivery is Always Fast and Free
100 Night Money Back Comfort Guarantee 12 Months 0% Interest Financing for qualified buyers. PayPal Accepted ******************************** Recommended related items that are commonly needed: Headboards & Platform Beds https://www.themattressexpert.com/furniture.html#/ Foundations https://www.themattressexpert.com/foundations.html#/ Bed Frames https://www.themattressexpert.com/bed_frames.html#/ Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector https://www.themattressexpert.com/sleep_and_beyond_protectors_and_encasements. ********************************* Visit our website for other related products TME Website: https://themattressexpert.com/ Thanks, Pete - TME Delivery is Always Free Online Ordering is Easy & Secure. Visa, M/C, Discover, Amex Follow us on Facebook & Instagram Questions? Ask TME: Email: [email protected] Voicemail: 856-874-6894 A Great Selection of the Highest Quality Mattress Toppers
Suite Sleep 3” Soft Pure Vita Talalay Latex Mattress Topper https://cc-mattress-llc.square.site/product/pure-vita-talalay-latex-topper/32 PlushBeds Alternative Down Mattress Topper https://www.plushbeds.com/products/alternative-down-bed-topper?sscid=71k8_rmssu&utm_source=share-a-sale&utm_campaign=4342051&variant=32001051787362 Latex for Less Pure, Organic Latex Mattress Toppers https://www.latexforless.com/products/latex-topper?variant=134346899481&sscid=71k8_rmsu0&utm_source=share-a-sale&utm_campaign=4342051 Magniflex MemoForm Foam Mattress Toppers https://www.themattressexpert.com/magniflex-mattress-toppers.html#/ Delivery is Always Free ******************************** Recommended related items that are commonly needed: Headboards & Platform Beds https://www.themattressexpert.com/furniture.html#/ Foundations https://www.themattressexpert.com/foundations.html#/ Bed Frames https://www.themattressexpert.com/bed_frames.html#/ Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector https://www.themattressexpert.com/sleep_and_beyond_protectors_and_encasements. ********************************* Visit our website for other related products TME Website: https://themattressexpert.com/ Thanks, Pete - TME Delivery is Always Free Online Ordering is Easy & Secure. Visa, M/C, Discover, Amex Follow us on Facebook & Instagram Questions? Ask TME: Email: [email protected] Voicemail: 856-874-6894 Hi Pete,
My question is a simple one. What is the absolute softest mattress topper available? Thanks, Mika Hi Mika, I only wish that the answer was equally as simple. Latex is the longest lasting of all the mattress toppers. The softest of them is the Suite Sleep 3” Soft Pure Vita Talalay Latex Topper. Shown here: Suite Sleep 3” Soft Pure Vita Talalay Latex Mattress Topper https://cc-mattress-llc.square.site/product/pure-vita-talalay-latex-topper/32 The absolute softest is the PlushBeds Alternative Down Mattress Topper. Shown here: PlushBeds Alternative Down Mattress Topper https://www.plushbeds.com/products/alternative-down-bed-topper?sscid=71k8_rmssu&utm_source=share-a-sale&utm_campaign=4342051&variant=32001051787362 Thanks, Pete - TME ******************************** Recommended related items that are commonly needed: Foundations https://www.themattressexpert.com/foundations.html#/ Bed Frames https://www.themattressexpert.com/bed_frames.html#/ Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector https://www.themattressexpert.com/sleep_and_beyond_protectors_and_encasements. ********************************* Visit our website for other related products TME Website: https://themattressexpert.com/ Thanks, Pete - TME Delivery is Always Free Online Ordering is Easy & Secure. Visa, M/C, Discover, Amex Follow us on Facebook & Instagram Questions? Ask TME: Email: [email protected] Voicemail: 856-874-6894 Hi Pete,
I have a very advanced case of fibromyalgia, which causes me extreme pain. I’m already using a soft latex topper, which helps, but it’s not enough. What do you have that would further help to relieve my pain when sleeping? Thanks for any help you can provide, Lisa Hi Lisa, The latex topper is a great first step, which is all that many need to relieve fibromyalgia pain. But with fibromyalgia being a progressive condition, the next step is to add an alternative down topper. It’s not as long ladder as latex, which is why we recommend starting there. An alternative down topper provides more of a cloud like feel. Click on this link for that product: PlushBeds Alternative Down Mattress Topper https://www.plushbeds.com/products/alternative-down-bed-topper?sscid=71k8_rmssu&utm_source=share-a-sale&utm_campaign=4342051&variant=32001051787362 ******************************** Recommended related items that are commonly needed: Foundations https://www.themattressexpert.com/foundations.html#/ Bed Frames https://www.themattressexpert.com/bed_frames.html#/ Organic Cotton Waterproof Mattress Protector https://www.themattressexpert.com/sleep_and_beyond_protectors_and_encasements. ********************************* Visit our website for other related products TME Website: https://themattressexpert.com/ Thanks, Pete - TME Delivery is Always Free Online Ordering is Easy & Secure. Visa, M/C, Discover, Amex Follow us on Facebook & Instagram Questions? Ask TME: Email: [email protected] Voicemail: 856-874-6894 Hi Pete,
I have an advanced stage of fibromyalgia. The pain is constant. After reading some of your blog posts, I decided to follow your advice by adding a soft latex topper to my mattress. Latex for Less Pure, Organic Latex Mattress Toppers https://www.latexforless.com/products/latex-topper?variant=134346899481&sscid=71k8_rmsu0&utm_source=share-a-sale&utm_campaign=4342051 And while it helped, it isn’t enough for me. Do you have a recommendation for dealing with severe fibromyalgia? Thanks, Louisa Hi Louisa, Yes. I can recommend something for you. The soft latex is enough for many fibromyalgia patients…and it’s a good place to start for those suffering with severe fibromyalgia, as it provides long term relief over many years. Also available is synthetic (alternative) down. It’s extremely soft and pillowy feeling. And while it’s much longer lasting than real down, it’s not as long lasting as soft latex. Your soft latex topper provides an excellent base for this alternative down topper from PlushBeds…shown here: PlushBeds Alternative Down Mattress Topper https://www.plushbeds.com/products/alternative-down-bed-topper?sscid=71k8_rmssu&utm_source=share-a-sale&utm_campaign=4342051&variant=32001051787362 Thanks, Pete - TME Delivery is Always Free Online Ordering is Easy & Secure. Visa, M/C, Discover, Amex Follow us on Facebook Website: https://themattressexpert.com/ Email: [email protected] Voicemail: 856-874-6894 Hi Pete,
I needed a topper for my old mattress, that’s in good condition, but too firm. For the sake of expense, I bought a cheap memory foam topper. Holly Molly! What a Mistake! It’s hot. It smells. And, it did nothing to relieve my fibromyalgia pain. Obviously, I won’t be able to get away with “cheap”, but I still need to maximize my dollar for dollar value. I found your blog while doing some research…research I should have done first. Anyway, you’ve convinced me that you know what you’re talking about. So, what do your recommend for a plus size gal? Thanks, Jane Hi Jane, The very best material for long lasting comfort is pure, organic latex. Since you’re price conscious, you have to be careful about buying cheap latex that’s made in China, where they add clay as a filler when processing latex. Clay is a natural material, so it’s sold as all natural latex. Due to the clay filler it doesn’t last very long…a matter of months instead of years. Pure Latex is just that…PURE, with no fillers. Latex for Less has the lowest prices on the highest quality latex mattress toppers. 2” of Soft Latex produces a nice feel. If you can afford it, I recommend the 3”. I also recommend the organic cotton cover to go with it, which is optional. Click on this link to view and place your order: Latex for Less Pure, Organic Latex Mattress Toppers https://www.latexforless.com/products/latex-topper?variant=134346899481&sscid=71k8_rmsu0&utm_source=share-a-sale&utm_campaign=4342051 Fibromyalgia is a progressive condition. For more advanced fibromyalgia, adding an Alternative Down Topper is extremely helpful. These aren’t dense enough to be used alone, making a soft latex topper under it absolutely essential. But, they do produce a Cloud-Like feel. That extra comfort lasts longer with a soft latex base under it. So, get the Latex for Less topper first. Add the PlushBeds Alternative Down Topper if needed. Here’s a link to those: PlushBeds Alternative Down Mattress Topper https://www.plushbeds.com/products/alternative-down-bed-topper?sscid=71k8_rmssu&utm_source=share-a-sale&utm_campaign=4342051&variant=32001051787362 Thanks, Pete - TME Delivery is Always Free Online Ordering is Easy & Secure. Visa, M/C, Discover, Amex Follow us on Facebook Website: https://themattressexpert.com/ Email: [email protected] Voicemail: 856-874-6894 Hi Pete,
I have been suffering with fibromyalgia for years. It’s gotten worse over time. I need to make my mattress as soft as possible without sinking so far into it that it makes my back hurt. Memory foam is out. I want the durability of latex. What’s the best, softest latex mattress topper? Any other recommendations? Thanks, Betty Hi Betty, You’re wise to avoid memory foam, as it will cause you to sink into it. Without a doubt, 3” Soft Pure Vita Talalay is the softest of all the latex toppers. Shown here, from Suite Sleep. Suite Sleep 3” Soft Pure Vita Talalay Latex Mattress Topper: https://cc-mattress-llc.square.site/product/pure-vita-talalay-latex-topper/32 Latex provides the feeling that you’re floating and lasts for many years. For advanced fibromyalgia, add to that: The PlushBeds Synthetic Down Topper. While not as long lasting as latex, it’s much more durable than real down, and produces that nice fluffy feel that will further help to relieve your pain. Shown here: PlushBeds Synthetic Down Mattress Topper: https://www.plushbeds.com/products/alternative-down-bed-topper?sscid=71k8_rmssu&utm_source=share-a-sale&utm_campaign=4342051&variant=32001051787362 Thanks, Pete - TME Delivery is Always Free Online Ordering is Easy & Secure. Visa, M/C, Discover, Amex Follow us on Facebook Website: https://themattressexpert.com/ Email: [email protected] Voicemail: 856-874-6894 |
Our Resident Mattress ExpertOur resident expert has a background in engineering, a working knowledge of anatomy, and a comprehensive knowledge of the history of the mattress industry…along with a knowledge of how mattress components work and how they wear. This combined knowledge works in your favor, when recommending a sleep system that is tailored to your individual needs. Archives
November 2025
Categories
All
To read more of our blogs, visit Blogspot or Type Pad by clicking one of the logos.
|
RSS Feed
